“What We Love Hearing: Words That Brighten Our Day”
In care homes, it’s often the small things that make the biggest difference—especially the words that bring warmth, comfort, and happiness. Here are some of the simple yet meaningful phrases that residents love to hear from their caregivers:
1. “Good morning! How did you sleep?”
Why we love it: Starting the day with a friendly greeting and concern for our well-being makes us feel cared for from the moment we wake up.
2. “I’ve made your favorite meal today.”
Why we love it: Food brings comfort, and knowing someone remembers our favorites makes us feel at home.
3. “Let’s go for a little walk, if you’d like.”
Why we love it: The offer of companionship and a little fresh air makes us feel active and engaged in a simple, enjoyable way.
4. “Shall we listen to some of your favourite music?”
Why we love it: Music can bring back memories, lift our spirits, and create a shared experience that makes us feel connected.
5. “Would you like to tell me a story about that?”
Why we love it: Encouraging us to share stories from our past helps us feel valued, like our life and memories matter to someone else.
6. “You’ve got such a lovely smile!”
Why we love it: Compliments make us feel good, and something as simple as noticing our smile can brighten our day.
7. “Would you like to join us for [game, activity]?”
Why we love it: Being invited to participate makes us feel included, giving us a sense of community and fun.
8. “I’ve got time to sit and chat with you.”
Why we love it: Knowing someone is there to listen, without rushing, makes us feel connected and cared for.
9. “I brought you something special today.”
Why we love it: Surprises, even small ones, show that we are thought of and appreciated, making the day feel special.
10. “Would you like some help with that?”
Why we love it: It’s reassuring to know help is always there when we need it, but we’re still given the choice.